Why Every Couple Needs a Bucket List: A couples bucket list isn’t just a list of fun activities—it’s a way to intentionally invest in their marriage. It’s about making time for each other, prioritizing fun, and stepping outside of the daily grind to create new experiences together.

Have you ever looked at your spouse and thought, When was the last time we did something just for us?

If we’re being honest, marriage can get lost in the shuffle of life. Between raising kids, managing work, and keeping up with responsibilities, it’s easy to shift from being romantic partners to just being teammates. But what if I told you there’s a way to bring back that spark, deepen your connection, and create memories that will last a lifetime?

The answer? A Couples Bucket List.

Daron and I have learned that a thriving marriage doesn’t happen by accident. We have to be intentional—not just about the big things but also about the small, everyday moments that keep our relationship strong.

And let’s be real—our kids need to see that, too. They need to see their parents in love, choosing each other, putting God first, and making our marriage a priority.

So whether you’re newly married or celebrating decades together, I encourage you to create your bucket list for couples and start checking things off!

The Ultimate Couples Bucket List

Here are some of our favorite bucket list ideas that have helped us grow closer, laugh more, and make our marriage a priority.

Make Date Night a Weekly Priority

Daron and I joke that we never want to stop “dating” each other, but the truth is, regular date nights are essential.

Whether it’s:

• Trying a new restaurant
• A spontaneous coffee date
• A quiet dinner at home after the kids go to bed

The point is to make time for each other. Even if it’s just one night a week, put it on the calendar and stick to it.

Find a Hobby You Both Enjoy

Early in our relationship, we discovered a shared love for golf. Are we good at it? Not really. But do we have fun and enjoy the competition? Absolutely.

It doesn’t have to be golf—find something you both love:

• Tennis, hiking, biking
• Cooking classes
• Gardening
• Dancing in the kitchen

Even if one of you isn’t great at it, give it a shot. The goal is to have fun together.

Pray and Worship Together

If there’s one thing that has transformed our marriage, it’s this.

I fell in love with Daron because of his heart for prayer and Worship. When we started making it part of our daily lives together, our intimacy grew even deeper.

Ideas to start:

• Pray together before bed
• Worship while holding hands
• Send encouraging Bible verses over text

There’s something powerful about inviting God into your marriage daily.

Watch the Sunset Together

One of my favorite bucket list moments was watching the sunset with Daron on the beach. There were no distractions, no agenda, just stillness, gratitude, and each other.

• Find a place—your backyard, a park, or even your front porch—and enjoy the beauty of the moment together.
• Take a Trip—Just the Two of You
• Every year, we prioritize a kid-free getaway—even just for a weekend.

Getting away together allows you to focus on each other without the distractions of daily life. Make it a priority!

Create a Simple Daily Ritual

For us, it’s coffee. Every morning, we make each other coffee—a small, everyday moment that keeps us connected.

Maybe for you, it’s:

• A daily walk
• A five-minute check-in after work
• Watching a favorite TV show together

Find something small but meaningful.

Work Out Together

Even if fitness isn’t your thing, moving together is a great way to stay healthy and bond.

Ideas:

• Try a new workout class
• Go for a walk or jog
• Do a yoga session at home

The goal isn’t just fitness—it’s quality time.

Make Intimacy a Priority

Let’s talk about it. Studies show that couples who prioritize intimacy have stronger marriages.

Schedule time for it, talk about it, and ensure you connect on every level.

• Have More Adventures
• Spice up your routine by doing something out of the ordinary:
• Go to a zoo, aquarium, or museum
• Take a road trip
• Go horseback riding
• Try a cooking or art class together

Dream Big—Together

Daron and I love dreaming together—whether it’s setting goals for the year, making vision boards, or simply talking about where God is leading us.

When was the last time you dreamed together?

Ideas:

• Set marriage and family goals
• Pray over your future
• Encourage each other’s personal dreams

Hold Hands—Often

There’s something so simple yet powerful about holding hands.

Whether driving, sitting on the couch, or walking through the store, try to stay physically connected.

Create a Playlist of “Your” Songs

We have a playlist called B&D Favorites—it’s filled with songs that remind us of different seasons in our relationship. Make your own! Every song tells a story, and reliving those memories together is fun.

Unplug and Be Present

One of the most significant changes we made recently was putting our phones away in the evenings.

Try it:

• Set a “phone-free” time each day
• Be present in conversations
• Enjoy each other without distractions

Take a Drive—No Destination Needed

Turn up the music, grab some snacks, and just go for a drive. Talk, laugh, and enjoy the journey.

Serve Others Together

One of the most fulfilling things you can do as a couple is serve together. Whether it’s at church, a local charity, or helping a friend in need, giving back strengthens your bond.

Say “Thank You” More Often

Gratitude changes everything. Make it a habit to:

• Send encouraging texts
• Leave little love notes
• Verbally affirm each other daily

What’s on YOUR Couples Bucket List?

Daron and I have made so many sweet memories by intentionally pursuing joy, laughter, and love in our marriage. So now, it’s your turn! Which of these will you try first? Do you have any favorite couples bucket list ideas?

Let’s make 2025 the year we prioritize connection, fun, and faith in our marriages.

XO,